Well it's true, whenever u feel too cold... it's better to have ur socks on. even better than drinking lots and lots hot water.... believe it or not? try it and u'll know....
guess what i always thought wearing socks to bed is the granny thing.... for a modern adult like myself.... this will definitely not gonna to happen to me....anyway perhaps initially i'm rather reluctant even to listen to those granny culture.... so no one bother to tell me about this....
and one fine day.... i just sort of trying whether will it works on me..... coz sometimes even with clothes on..... and the comforter wrapping around me... i'll still feel the cool breeze around....
most of the old methods still applicable until todate.... they know far more better than ours on how to really take care of themselves even under the worst situations.... perhaps that's how they live much longer than us.... whether u believe it or otherwise ....
Tuesday, December 11, 2007
Sunday, December 9, 2007
Scarlet - Cineleisure The Curve
well it has been awhile i've been there.. always wanna to write something about it with the pic of mine... but too bad... later perhaps i'll post the picture ;)
i like the place... scarlet is the newly open lounge and have nice environment....nice music.... and well those hang out all goegrous... Mr Cute Guys and Ms PRetty Chic....
So don't miss it... its at the first floor of Cineleisure - The curve...
i like the place... scarlet is the newly open lounge and have nice environment....nice music.... and well those hang out all goegrous... Mr Cute Guys and Ms PRetty Chic....
So don't miss it... its at the first floor of Cineleisure - The curve...
Robinson - The Gardens
It was my first time been to Robinson.... and i know i know... it wasn't really that new coz it opened the same time as Pavillion and the Sunway Jusco...
I've been to Pavillion for quite a number of times and yet to Sunway Jusco....
It's pretty hard to compared which mall i like the most between Pavillion and The Gardens. Seriously i like Robinson.... to Isetan.... i dunno about the service but i like their merchandise... sooo much difference than the rest.... well perhaps coz we've been shopping too much in either Isetan or Parkson and just named the brand and we could definitely guide u where is it all about and what is their latest fashion design.....and it's totally different for Robinson....
Anyway, i always love to shop in those weird mall... like the previous CK Tangs... then the Debenhums and now the Robinson... Oppps.... both the former already out of the market ;) Not my fault OK....anyway Tangs is back to Pavilion already... and good to know that....
Robinson's merchandises are in the middle range... at least for those that i see... range RM200 and above... only the assesories are slightly lower but still costly compared to Isetan overall.... but all u can see is everything is sooo nice and you could hardly stop yourself for buying....
Something worth tell is that the TOILET again :P is RM5 per entry ya... UNLESS you have Robinson / Isetan / OCBC cum Robinson Card ya.... coz u may use the Origin products for free without limit i guess :P
If u don't feel like paying and dont have the card, then better go to LG...coz all floors from G to 4th is charging the same soon... now only G floor is charging RM5.... but soon they'll extend to all floors.... so better beware ya...
Nice couch along the hallway between Robinson to Isetan.... the same idea u could found in Starhill ... but none of the mall .. neither The Gardens nor Pavillion could BIT Starhill... Starhill is still the best....
I've been to Pavillion for quite a number of times and yet to Sunway Jusco....
It's pretty hard to compared which mall i like the most between Pavillion and The Gardens. Seriously i like Robinson.... to Isetan.... i dunno about the service but i like their merchandise... sooo much difference than the rest.... well perhaps coz we've been shopping too much in either Isetan or Parkson and just named the brand and we could definitely guide u where is it all about and what is their latest fashion design.....and it's totally different for Robinson....
Anyway, i always love to shop in those weird mall... like the previous CK Tangs... then the Debenhums and now the Robinson... Oppps.... both the former already out of the market ;) Not my fault OK....anyway Tangs is back to Pavilion already... and good to know that....
Robinson's merchandises are in the middle range... at least for those that i see... range RM200 and above... only the assesories are slightly lower but still costly compared to Isetan overall.... but all u can see is everything is sooo nice and you could hardly stop yourself for buying....
Something worth tell is that the TOILET again :P is RM5 per entry ya... UNLESS you have Robinson / Isetan / OCBC cum Robinson Card ya.... coz u may use the Origin products for free without limit i guess :P
If u don't feel like paying and dont have the card, then better go to LG...coz all floors from G to 4th is charging the same soon... now only G floor is charging RM5.... but soon they'll extend to all floors.... so better beware ya...
Nice couch along the hallway between Robinson to Isetan.... the same idea u could found in Starhill ... but none of the mall .. neither The Gardens nor Pavillion could BIT Starhill... Starhill is still the best....
NINJA JONES - Opposite Midvalley
Hi guys, just wanna to share this nice restaurant i've been to last night. It's simply gorgeous.... delicious.... and the environment is soooo nIce. You guys should try it out.
As from the name of the restaurant u might notice it's a Japanese restaurant... It's a classy restaurant and my first thought was wow... it must be very costly ... and Hell not.... NOT AT ALL... it's just the normal range u can get in every japanese restaurant... not much difference in the PRICE... but yet IT'S SIMPLY DELICIOUS...
The waiter dresses like the NINJA.... so don't ask me whether is there any Mr Nice Guy around ya.... but they are all very friendly and polite...
THe music is sooo soothing.... relaxing and just worth every cents you spent on it.
The garlic rice and the Volcano rolls are delicious... and well finally i found IT.... their teppanyaki has the same taste as the one i used to go at Wisma Cosway. .... OOOiSHiii Ne
Finally LET'S talk about it's TOILET.... ehheheh... gals just love to survey the TOILET... wondering y....:p
I was blunt... how to flash the toilet? it is a high tech toilet bowl... has got more than 10 buttons... well even tho is in chinese... but i still too shock and too shy to take the time figuring out how to flash the toilet....
Lastly... it is located opposite midvalley... not in the Robinson tho but the high class residence building... ground floor... next to Kiosk. So guys... check it out....
As from the name of the restaurant u might notice it's a Japanese restaurant... It's a classy restaurant and my first thought was wow... it must be very costly ... and Hell not.... NOT AT ALL... it's just the normal range u can get in every japanese restaurant... not much difference in the PRICE... but yet IT'S SIMPLY DELICIOUS...
The waiter dresses like the NINJA.... so don't ask me whether is there any Mr Nice Guy around ya.... but they are all very friendly and polite...
THe music is sooo soothing.... relaxing and just worth every cents you spent on it.
The garlic rice and the Volcano rolls are delicious... and well finally i found IT.... their teppanyaki has the same taste as the one i used to go at Wisma Cosway. .... OOOiSHiii Ne
Finally LET'S talk about it's TOILET.... ehheheh... gals just love to survey the TOILET... wondering y....:p
I was blunt... how to flash the toilet? it is a high tech toilet bowl... has got more than 10 buttons... well even tho is in chinese... but i still too shock and too shy to take the time figuring out how to flash the toilet....
Lastly... it is located opposite midvalley... not in the Robinson tho but the high class residence building... ground floor... next to Kiosk. So guys... check it out....
在一次偶然的机会认识了大名鼎鼎的林伟贤
林伟贤这个名字，对于一个孤陋寡闻的我，相当陌生。
有一个星期六，我丈夫问我有没有兴趣出席林伟贤的讲座。虽然，咋听之下，2。30 到8。30 有点儿长。但是，偶尔的我对于一些我平常很少接触的事情，都保持高度的兴趣。
就这样，我终于拜会了林先生。哈哈。。。所谓的拜会，也只不过是参与了一场很精彩的讲座。
通常，讲座都满无聊。眼睛所到之处，都可看见一个个忍不住打呵欠的听众。我以为，这场讲座也不过尔耳。从一开始，我就抱着姑且一看的心态；到我忍不住精神奕奕地洗耳恭听，也真的只不过是短短的六个小时。但是，受益不浅啊！
从中我认识到了我国人民和其他国家的明显差异，不是在于肤色；更不是在于文化或语言的不同。而是，我们真的把自己局限在一个小小的国家里头。完完全全地把全球化的这个趋势给忽略掉了，我们还以为自己有多么的幸运！真悲哀。。。。
他点醒了在座的每一位，该如何把我们现有的财富，将之发扬光大。总而言之，大家不妨去游览他的网站 http://blog.sina.com.cn/willson ，去体会一下不同的商业哲学。
有一个星期六，我丈夫问我有没有兴趣出席林伟贤的讲座。虽然，咋听之下，2。30 到8。30 有点儿长。但是，偶尔的我对于一些我平常很少接触的事情，都保持高度的兴趣。
就这样，我终于拜会了林先生。哈哈。。。所谓的拜会，也只不过是参与了一场很精彩的讲座。
通常，讲座都满无聊。眼睛所到之处，都可看见一个个忍不住打呵欠的听众。我以为，这场讲座也不过尔耳。从一开始，我就抱着姑且一看的心态；到我忍不住精神奕奕地洗耳恭听，也真的只不过是短短的六个小时。但是，受益不浅啊！
从中我认识到了我国人民和其他国家的明显差异，不是在于肤色；更不是在于文化或语言的不同。而是，我们真的把自己局限在一个小小的国家里头。完完全全地把全球化的这个趋势给忽略掉了，我们还以为自己有多么的幸运！真悲哀。。。。
他点醒了在座的每一位，该如何把我们现有的财富，将之发扬光大。总而言之，大家不妨去游览他的网站 http://blog.sina.com.cn/willson ，去体会一下不同的商业哲学。
Friday, November 9, 2007
宽恕谈何容易？
曾经，我听过这么的一段故事。与其说是故事，倒不如说是一个家庭的真实经历，来的贴切。
相信，很多人多多少少，对于车祸一点也不陌生。撇开，报章上的新闻不说，单单我国每年所涉及交通车祸的不计其数。你可以想象的到，这些事故已经让多少个家庭哭断魂吗？
这，是一个朋友的亲身经历。就如往常一样，开完了工，已经是凌晨三四点。大家都已经精疲力尽了，巴不得立刻回家，冲个冷水澡，就倒头睡觉呢。但是，由于工地和宿舍也有一点距离。他们也不得不带着疲惫的身躯，驾着车往宿舍的方向驶去。车上，连同已疲惫不堪的司机，一共有四人。同样的，除了司机以外，车上的同伴们都已经，不约而同的和衣而睡了。
给予以上的种种因素，司机在半梦半醒之间，狠狠地撞向已发生事故的罗里。基于，人体的本能反应，司机只来得及把驾驶盘来个90度急转弯，就听见“Bang”一声，车祸已经发生了。当司机往同伴们望去，他才愕然的发现，他旁边的同僚，竟然被一枝枝的建筑铁枝硬生生地穿脑而过。而他自己，最后也不能幸免被截肢的命运。所幸他还能保留一条腿，其余两个后坐的同伴也只受轻伤。但是，司机旁的同僚却当场送命。
而死者正是我朋友唯一的弟弟，也是他们家唯一的儿子。
通常，事故的尾声都会伴随着无数次地官司，或伸冤什么的。但，死者的家人却能理智地，宽容地饶恕了那位司机。大概，很多很多的人都不能理解，也无法用相同的手法去处理同样的事情吧！
我，也和一般人一样，问了同样的问题。他是这样回答的：“当然我们也很难过，失去了一位至亲；但是，那个司机却会一辈子良心不安啊！我们又何苦为难他呢!"
同样的道理，人人都会说。但是不是，我们在受苦的时候，也能体会一下别人的苦呢？
也许因为对方是我的朋友，所以我的体会特别深刻吧。也是因为这段机遇，从此我不敢也不会在他人驾驶时入眠。这并不是对司机的驾驶技术没有信心，而是我认为每个人都应该为自己的生命负责。而不是，把自己的生命托付与人后，在发生事故的时埋怨对方。如果，自己没有入眠,那么很可能,，我们不但可以挽救自己的生命，也可以助其他乘客一臂之力啊!
相信，很多人多多少少，对于车祸一点也不陌生。撇开，报章上的新闻不说，单单我国每年所涉及交通车祸的不计其数。你可以想象的到，这些事故已经让多少个家庭哭断魂吗？
这，是一个朋友的亲身经历。就如往常一样，开完了工，已经是凌晨三四点。大家都已经精疲力尽了，巴不得立刻回家，冲个冷水澡，就倒头睡觉呢。但是，由于工地和宿舍也有一点距离。他们也不得不带着疲惫的身躯，驾着车往宿舍的方向驶去。车上，连同已疲惫不堪的司机，一共有四人。同样的，除了司机以外，车上的同伴们都已经，不约而同的和衣而睡了。
给予以上的种种因素，司机在半梦半醒之间，狠狠地撞向已发生事故的罗里。基于，人体的本能反应，司机只来得及把驾驶盘来个90度急转弯，就听见“Bang”一声，车祸已经发生了。当司机往同伴们望去，他才愕然的发现，他旁边的同僚，竟然被一枝枝的建筑铁枝硬生生地穿脑而过。而他自己，最后也不能幸免被截肢的命运。所幸他还能保留一条腿，其余两个后坐的同伴也只受轻伤。但是，司机旁的同僚却当场送命。
而死者正是我朋友唯一的弟弟，也是他们家唯一的儿子。
通常，事故的尾声都会伴随着无数次地官司，或伸冤什么的。但，死者的家人却能理智地，宽容地饶恕了那位司机。大概，很多很多的人都不能理解，也无法用相同的手法去处理同样的事情吧！
我，也和一般人一样，问了同样的问题。他是这样回答的：“当然我们也很难过，失去了一位至亲；但是，那个司机却会一辈子良心不安啊！我们又何苦为难他呢!"
同样的道理，人人都会说。但是不是，我们在受苦的时候，也能体会一下别人的苦呢？
也许因为对方是我的朋友，所以我的体会特别深刻吧。也是因为这段机遇，从此我不敢也不会在他人驾驶时入眠。这并不是对司机的驾驶技术没有信心，而是我认为每个人都应该为自己的生命负责。而不是，把自己的生命托付与人后，在发生事故的时埋怨对方。如果，自己没有入眠,那么很可能,，我们不但可以挽救自己的生命，也可以助其他乘客一臂之力啊!
Friday, November 2, 2007
WHAT THE F'K
Hahahaha.......... well i could use simply any words here....am i not? :p
he is really SOMETHING.... something i could hardly figure out a term to define. he wanna EVERYTHING.....simply EVERYTHING...but ended up.... DUNNO HOW TO USE IT. or just DO NOT FEEL LIKE USING IT coz can use OTHERS. is it a necessity TO USE OTHERS PHONE, just to call to their HP? Is his phone CACAT? or just bcoz he wanna TO FEEL HOW IS IT LIKE SITTING ON OTHER'S CHAIR? !!!ACTING LIKE A BOSS.......... for us to feel HOW SUPERIOR HE IS
OMG....it wasn't EVEN A CONFERENCING....just press A SPEAKER BUTTON... to USE the FUNCTION.... is it DAMN HARD? OMG don't tell me he doesnt even know how to USE THE SPEAKER FUNCTION? what a STUPID JERK........
always PRETENDING.... he is knowledgable.... but ENDED UP... BEING OTHERS LAUGHING STICK.
hahhaha.....very funny isn't it? WORST COME TO WORST .....we still being caught....
GUESS THAT'S HOW LIFE SHOULD BE HUH?.... all depending of ur LUCK.... well so next time.. don't forget to look up for a GOOD NAME... choosing a GOOD TIMING....for ya NEW BORN BABY.... also don't forget to look into the FENG SUI.....muahahhahaha...
he is really SOMETHING.... something i could hardly figure out a term to define. he wanna EVERYTHING.....simply EVERYTHING...but ended up.... DUNNO HOW TO USE IT. or just DO NOT FEEL LIKE USING IT coz can use OTHERS. is it a necessity TO USE OTHERS PHONE, just to call to their HP? Is his phone CACAT? or just bcoz he wanna TO FEEL HOW IS IT LIKE SITTING ON OTHER'S CHAIR? !!!ACTING LIKE A BOSS.......... for us to feel HOW SUPERIOR HE IS
OMG....it wasn't EVEN A CONFERENCING....just press A SPEAKER BUTTON... to USE the FUNCTION.... is it DAMN HARD? OMG don't tell me he doesnt even know how to USE THE SPEAKER FUNCTION? what a STUPID JERK........
always PRETENDING.... he is knowledgable.... but ENDED UP... BEING OTHERS LAUGHING STICK.
hahhaha.....very funny isn't it? WORST COME TO WORST .....we still being caught....
GUESS THAT'S HOW LIFE SHOULD BE HUH?.... all depending of ur LUCK.... well so next time.. don't forget to look up for a GOOD NAME... choosing a GOOD TIMING....for ya NEW BORN BABY.... also don't forget to look into the FENG SUI.....muahahhahaha...
Thursday, November 1, 2007
婚外情! ? No Way
有一天，当我走着走着的时候，我突然明白为什么会有婚外情。往往每当一方出轨时，他或她都会受尽千夫指。但是，是不是另一方的他或她，真的无须承担任何的责任呢？
我脑海里一直不停的再转，又太多太多的东西，我很想表达，但不知从何下手。婚外情，一个会把我身边的人给吓坏的一个词儿。哈哈哈。。。可能这就是我会在这里发表，而不是别的网站发表的原因之一吧。
很多很多的人，往往把结婚当成一种责任。一种代表可以把对方凉在一旁的物件，而不是更加努力的去呵护对方。当一方的热情不再，另一方无论如何也热情不来了吧。这很可能是很多很多已婚男女都能体会的！
每当一对男女受对方所吸引时，都会对他或她呵护备至。凡是，都会以对方为主。而对于那些正处于嗳昧期的男女来说，那甜蜜的滋味可真会让人尝了还想在尝呢。可是，人永远不会一直都处于那种情景吧！所以，就有“往事只能会味”这句话吧。但是，很多时候，理智往往会给感性所打败。或是，太相信自己的自制力。还是，一种所谓的包袱心理。
但真正处于婚外情的人们，可曾想到他们日后所需承担的后果呢？又或者，他们深信好运会一直跟随他们呢？还是，他们知道家里的那一位只会默默的承受？
没有人可以断定自己，或对方不会堕入婚外情的陷阱。问题只在于，他们可以承受它的后果与否。对于，那些无法承受的人们来说，婚外情只会是绝缘体。
清醒吧！别再伤害你身边的人了。欲望是永无止境的，可是，你身边的人随时都会离你而去。可能，现在的你们无法理解，要弥补活着的人的伤害不容易；何况是，已仙游的人呢!
我脑海里一直不停的再转，又太多太多的东西，我很想表达，但不知从何下手。婚外情，一个会把我身边的人给吓坏的一个词儿。哈哈哈。。。可能这就是我会在这里发表，而不是别的网站发表的原因之一吧。
很多很多的人，往往把结婚当成一种责任。一种代表可以把对方凉在一旁的物件，而不是更加努力的去呵护对方。当一方的热情不再，另一方无论如何也热情不来了吧。这很可能是很多很多已婚男女都能体会的！
每当一对男女受对方所吸引时，都会对他或她呵护备至。凡是，都会以对方为主。而对于那些正处于嗳昧期的男女来说，那甜蜜的滋味可真会让人尝了还想在尝呢。可是，人永远不会一直都处于那种情景吧！所以，就有“往事只能会味”这句话吧。但是，很多时候，理智往往会给感性所打败。或是，太相信自己的自制力。还是，一种所谓的包袱心理。
但真正处于婚外情的人们，可曾想到他们日后所需承担的后果呢？又或者，他们深信好运会一直跟随他们呢？还是，他们知道家里的那一位只会默默的承受？
没有人可以断定自己，或对方不会堕入婚外情的陷阱。问题只在于，他们可以承受它的后果与否。对于，那些无法承受的人们来说，婚外情只会是绝缘体。
清醒吧！别再伤害你身边的人了。欲望是永无止境的，可是，你身边的人随时都会离你而去。可能，现在的你们无法理解，要弥补活着的人的伤害不容易；何况是，已仙游的人呢!
Wednesday, October 24, 2007
什么是所谓的安全感？
昨天晚上有一个我觉得蛮新鲜电台节目。一个关于初恋的故事。初恋，一个多么遥远的经历啊！我不敢说每一个初恋都是美好的，但它却是每个人的必经之路。虽然，它的结局都因人而异。但是，无论是热恋当中的情侣，还是历经沧海桑田的人对于安全感，这三个字应该都有所感触吧！ 尤其是男士们，对于这个名称多半是恐惧较多。
犹记有一次，一个以多年不曾联络的旧同事，拨电给我。问了我这样的一个问题，“什么是所谓的安全感？”“我该做些什么才能把安全感给她呢？” 刚开始的时候，我的第一个想法是不是因为钱在作怪呢？但是，说着说着我突然觉得，所谓的安全感并不只局限于钱。无可否认，有钱人理所当然可以轻易而举的，令未来身边的另一半无须为柴米油盐而烦恼。也可以有充足的资金，规划美好的将来。然而，无论它是不是居有举足轻重的地位，它也只代表安全感的一部分而已。
从安全感的字面上去解读的话，其实满简单，也很容易明白。可是，往往当这个字抛给我们的时候，当中的压力是不可言语的。原因是，安全感这个字有相当的个人。
很可笑的是，女孩儿们可能也不能够完全地解读，她们到底想要怎样的安全感。很多的事情，都是一体两面的。如下的特质可以同时给女孩儿们安全感和危机感：
1）魁梧的身材
2）温柔
3）体贴
4）善解人意
5）事业有成
6）丰厚的家产
7）无不良嗜好
其实，当我越写下去的时候，我越觉得总的来说，只要你能让女孩儿门高枕无忧，你已经符合了她们所谓的安全感特资了。也就是说，你安全的通过了她们的考验了。恭喜恭喜！
不同的女孩，会有不同的需求。但是，当甲女孩对乙和丙都有同样的要求时，这就变成了所谓的标准了。安全感，是很个人的。它并不代表一种标准。怎么说呢，安全感是比较有针对性地指出，对方所缺乏能让自己打开心房的理由。
无可否认的，很多女孩儿们会拿安全感来做挡箭牌。当然，相对的只要你抚心自问，那也不是在给你自己一个从新选择的机会吗？如果，你觉得值得去放手一搏的话，那就开始你的寻宝游戏吧！希望，你可以从以上的七点中，寻获通往她心中的那把钥匙吧！如果，你选择放弃，那就另择木而栖吧。
但是，诚如我所说，这是一个选择题。千万不要因为对方最终还是选择了别人而大叹不公平。做人应该有勇气去承担自己所作的决定。人们往往会忘了自己才是自己的主人。自己必须对自己的生命负责，而不是别人。
犹记有一次，一个以多年不曾联络的旧同事，拨电给我。问了我这样的一个问题，“什么是所谓的安全感？”“我该做些什么才能把安全感给她呢？” 刚开始的时候，我的第一个想法是不是因为钱在作怪呢？但是，说着说着我突然觉得，所谓的安全感并不只局限于钱。无可否认，有钱人理所当然可以轻易而举的，令未来身边的另一半无须为柴米油盐而烦恼。也可以有充足的资金，规划美好的将来。然而，无论它是不是居有举足轻重的地位，它也只代表安全感的一部分而已。
从安全感的字面上去解读的话，其实满简单，也很容易明白。可是，往往当这个字抛给我们的时候，当中的压力是不可言语的。原因是，安全感这个字有相当的个人。
很可笑的是，女孩儿们可能也不能够完全地解读，她们到底想要怎样的安全感。很多的事情，都是一体两面的。如下的特质可以同时给女孩儿们安全感和危机感：
1）魁梧的身材
2）温柔
3）体贴
4）善解人意
5）事业有成
6）丰厚的家产
7）无不良嗜好
其实，当我越写下去的时候，我越觉得总的来说，只要你能让女孩儿门高枕无忧，你已经符合了她们所谓的安全感特资了。也就是说，你安全的通过了她们的考验了。恭喜恭喜！
不同的女孩，会有不同的需求。但是，当甲女孩对乙和丙都有同样的要求时，这就变成了所谓的标准了。安全感，是很个人的。它并不代表一种标准。怎么说呢，安全感是比较有针对性地指出，对方所缺乏能让自己打开心房的理由。
无可否认的，很多女孩儿们会拿安全感来做挡箭牌。当然，相对的只要你抚心自问，那也不是在给你自己一个从新选择的机会吗？如果，你觉得值得去放手一搏的话，那就开始你的寻宝游戏吧！希望，你可以从以上的七点中，寻获通往她心中的那把钥匙吧！如果，你选择放弃，那就另择木而栖吧。
但是，诚如我所说，这是一个选择题。千万不要因为对方最终还是选择了别人而大叹不公平。做人应该有勇气去承担自己所作的决定。人们往往会忘了自己才是自己的主人。自己必须对自己的生命负责，而不是别人。
Monday, October 22, 2007
Does pregnant complete a woman?
I was quite surprise got to know that a friend of mine really have such a thinking that only by way of pregnant a woman then only a woman is complete. Perhaps that is her perception just for herself. Somehow, I really do not think this is a healthy thinking. I cannot imagine if later on when she happen to face pregnancy problem how will she react. I am pretty worried that she might not able to take it.
It is rather sad on her statement as many might aware, there are lots of people out there who wish to get pregnant but to no avail. Does that means that they are not a complete woman just because of they can never get pregnant? If every woman is having the same perception, I wonder how could woman ever live on their lives happily knowing the fact they could never fulfill they duty being a woman. That kind of statement will kills lots of woman out there, be it physically nor mentally.
I do not see pregnancy is a duty of a woman. In these modern days, no one should have such perception. In my opinion, it is rather a choice than a duty. No one has the obligation to give birth to a baby nor they should fulfill their duty by giving birth to a baby without having the enough cautious of their responsibility towards their kids. There are a way lot more abandon kids out there and I am not sure the reason to get pregnant just to make a complete woman could still sustain. To get pregnant and giving birth to a child is not merely to be a complete woman, it does effect a lot of things.
It is a lifetime commitment compare to the rest of the things, even marriage is no longer a lifetime commitment as the divorce rate is rising rapidly. I can see moms still worried about their kids even after they have got married and having their own kids.
So do think twice before getting pregnant and once you have made the choice live with it and try your very best to stay happily ever after. Of course never abandon your kids because it is your choice and not theirs. Just do not blame them for their present have caused lots of problem for you as they do not have a choice but you did. Never execute your pleasure at their expense. Be a more responsible person, and it helps to reduce the poor kids out there.
It is rather sad on her statement as many might aware, there are lots of people out there who wish to get pregnant but to no avail. Does that means that they are not a complete woman just because of they can never get pregnant? If every woman is having the same perception, I wonder how could woman ever live on their lives happily knowing the fact they could never fulfill they duty being a woman. That kind of statement will kills lots of woman out there, be it physically nor mentally.
I do not see pregnancy is a duty of a woman. In these modern days, no one should have such perception. In my opinion, it is rather a choice than a duty. No one has the obligation to give birth to a baby nor they should fulfill their duty by giving birth to a baby without having the enough cautious of their responsibility towards their kids. There are a way lot more abandon kids out there and I am not sure the reason to get pregnant just to make a complete woman could still sustain. To get pregnant and giving birth to a child is not merely to be a complete woman, it does effect a lot of things.
It is a lifetime commitment compare to the rest of the things, even marriage is no longer a lifetime commitment as the divorce rate is rising rapidly. I can see moms still worried about their kids even after they have got married and having their own kids.
So do think twice before getting pregnant and once you have made the choice live with it and try your very best to stay happily ever after. Of course never abandon your kids because it is your choice and not theirs. Just do not blame them for their present have caused lots of problem for you as they do not have a choice but you did. Never execute your pleasure at their expense. Be a more responsible person, and it helps to reduce the poor kids out there.
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