Does pregnant complete a woman?

I was quite surprise got to know that a friend of mine really have such a thinking that only by way of pregnant a woman then only a woman is complete. Perhaps that is her perception just for herself. Somehow, I really do not think this is a healthy thinking. I cannot imagine if later on when she happen to face pregnancy problem how will she react. I am pretty worried that she might not able to take it.

It is rather sad on her statement as many might aware, there are lots of people out there who wish to get pregnant but to no avail. Does that means that they are not a complete woman just because of they can never get pregnant? If every woman is having the same perception, I wonder how could woman ever live on their lives happily knowing the fact they could never fulfill they duty being a woman. That kind of statement will kills lots of woman out there, be it physically nor mentally.

I do not see pregnancy is a duty of a woman. In these modern days, no one should have such perception. In my opinion, it is rather a choice than a duty. No one has the obligation to give birth to a baby nor they should fulfill their duty by giving birth to a baby without having the enough cautious of their responsibility towards their kids. There are a way lot more abandon kids out there and I am not sure the reason to get pregnant just to make a complete woman could still sustain. To get pregnant and giving birth to a child is not merely to be a complete woman, it does effect a lot of things.

It is a lifetime commitment compare to the rest of the things, even marriage is no longer a lifetime commitment as the divorce rate is rising rapidly. I can see moms still worried about their kids even after they have got married and having their own kids.

So do think twice before getting pregnant and once you have made the choice live with it and try your very best to stay happily ever after. Of course never abandon your kids because it is your choice and not theirs. Just do not blame them for their present have caused lots of problem for you as they do not have a choice but you did. Never execute your pleasure at their expense. Be a more responsible person, and it helps to reduce the poor kids out there.